Have you ever noticed that social media can sometimes act like a puppeteer in our relationships? Check out this article I wrote on the new dating world that we now live in!
Take a minute and think about what Instagram is. Yes, it is an online photo sharing application but it is mainly just a competition for likes. In a previous post I wrote all about this phenomenon, but now I want to focus my attention on those photos that receive the most likes, also known as some of the most cliche photos on Instagram.
Here is a list of the 10 most cliche photos on Instagram according to Nicole Goldfarb, aka me!
1. Feet On The Beach
Why do you post this? To make everyone jealous of the fact that you’re on the beach, and to show off your nice pedicure. Who cares if there are 10 other pictures on your news feed just like this one… it’s summer, YOLO!
2. Food #FoodPorn
Why do you post this? It looks too pretty not to be photographed and you want to make everyone jealous of the delectable food you are about to gobble up. By the way, this was the most delicious coffee I think I’ve ever had.
Who do you post this? Just look at that fluffy belly. Everyone wants to admire a cute animal and talk in a baby voice to the photo about how cute the animal is. Men and women, the young and the old, they all love pictures of animals because they’re adorable to look at. You can follow @flo_the_fluff on Instagram to see more pictures of this very cute little cat!
Why do you post this? To capture the beautiful colors in the sky and share it with everyone else. On a night with a pretty sunset you can expect multiple pictures of the sunset from all different angles and places around town. With Instagram, you don’t even have to be outside to see the sunset!
5. City Landscapes/Tall Buildings
6. Latte Art
7. Airplane Wings
8. World Famous Structures
Why do you post this? There is an unwritten rule that if you are lucky enough to travel to one of these places with a famous structure then you have to take a picture. Ever heard of someone going to see the Eiffel Tower or Big Ben and not photographing it? Yeah, me neither.
9. Old Baby Pics
10. Text Message Screen Shot
So why do we continue to post these cliche photos over and over again if we’ve already seen the almost identical thing 100 other times? Maybe we’re trying to compete with our friends, maybe we don’t realize our really cool, carefully edited photo is not a new image so we post it anyways. Who knows, but either way, these pictures will continue to be posted many more times, so be prepared!
Disclaimer: the majority of these pictures came from my personal Instagram account so I’m just as guilty as anyone else… Don’t feel bad if you have every one of these pictures on your Instagram because I would guess that most people do too.
College is different. It’s nothing like high school. Classes are harder, exams are harder, and leaving friends is the hardest. When high school is over everyone runs out of class with excitement and eagerness in their eyes, and all their best friends right by their side. I am beyond excited for summer to be here but I am also deeply saddened to leave all my great friends that I’ve made this year. Your friends at school become your family away from home. When I go a few days without seeing my friends I feel like it has been months. How am I going to go a whole summer…?!
When college is over most people return home. Many go back to different cities in North Carolina, but some go states away or almost half way across the country. This is why I am very thankful for social media. It keeps everyone connected. Things like Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, iMessage, FaceTime, Snap Chat, and so many more, make the miles apart seem not so bad. Even though I won’t be able to have lazy Sunday mornings at Elmos or late nights at Qdoba, I’ll still be able to stay up to date about what’s happening in their lives. Twitter will give me current updates on what their doing, Instagram will let me see where they are, and Snap Chat will remind me of the ugliest faces they can make.
Even when we’re apart we’ll be able to be together.
With that being said, as sad as I am to leave my school friends behind, I’m excited to see my home friends. Growing up is weird though. Summer doesn’t mean beach every day, like it used to. We’re starting to live our own lives and go off in different places. I will be in New York City for the majority of the summer, so I’m only going to get a short month with some friends, but I will take anything I can get! Once again, thank god for social media. It allows me to be connected with all my friends, no matter how far away from each other we are.
The school year is coming to an end and I just recently finished up my journalism class about mass media. It was a great class that taught me so much and I would recommend it to anyone at UNC! It may sound scary because it’s on Monday night for three hours, but… it is really interesting and opened my eyes to many new things.
One of my favorite things about the class was that it introduced me to the world of technology and mass media. I loved learning about new inventions like Google Glass and Oculus. It got me thinking about what the future holds and I liked challenging my mind to make predictions on my own of what is to come. Knowing about these things made me feel in the loop and I liked sharing the information, about new inventions, to my family and friends. My dad knows all about Ring now!
The student presentations were also a great aspect of the class. Every time someone presented I learned something new and a lot of times they gave me a good laugh. I liked seeing things from other people’s perspectives and I liked watching how they would take an event or incident and relate it to mass media.
The most important thing I learned from this class though was that having an online presence is an essential thing to have. I never realized how much can happen from an online blog and how important they are to have, especially for us college students looking for internships and jobs. It is extremely helpful to have something published online that you can easily show to future employers, to give them a sample of your work. Putting your name out there gives you a chance to be noticed. No one ever knows who’s the next person to go viral, so why not try and get yourself in the game?
Having to blog for class was a great idea. Although it was a lot of work, I enjoyed every minute of it! I liked researching things in mass media and I liked having to write for an audience, instead of for a professor. I’ve never gotten a chance to really write about what I want to write about in a class. Throughout all my years of school, papers with a predetermined topic have been assigned to me and I’ve never gotten to write in a casual, fun way about something I like. Writing for an online audience has been a completely new thing for me and I’ve come to realize that I really like doing it! I am even planning on making a blog for my summer experience in New York City!
So thank you Professor John Robinson for opening up my eyes to the world of blogs! I have enjoyed every minute of your class and, though I won’t really miss being in class until 8:30 on a Monday night, I will miss learning about all the current news in mass media from you!
I’m just sitting here, doing some thinking about they ways in which technology has changed our world and I wanted to express my thanks to MapQuest, Google Maps, and GPS systems everywhere. I don’t know what I would do without these things because, moment of truth… I can’t read a map to save my life. Yes, the little ones for amusement parks and what not aren’t that bad, but put me in a car with a map and tell me to give you directions and we will be lost within a matter of minutes. All those lefts and rights and tilts of the map, I can’t handle it.
I remember when MapQuest first came out, my mom was so excited to have printed directions that she could look at in the car. She no longer had to have her head buried in a map the entire ride and was able to avoid arguments with my dad when she told him to go in the wrong direction.
The emergence of electronic maps has made life 100 times more simple. I never really had to worry about relying on only a paper map for driving directions, because by the time I was driving GPS systems were everywhere, and I couldn’t imagine it any other way. Sometimes I get lost with my Google Maps speaking the directions out loud to me. Whoops…
GPS systems have had a very large positive impact on society. In my opinion, here are a few reasons why GPS is better than paper maps.
1. It takes two seconds to map out where you need to go because the computer system does it for you
2. You don’t have to worry about poking your eye out because there is no map to flip
3. You can avoid screaming arguments with your co-pilot, about making a wrong turn because the only person you can blame is yourself
4. You don’t get nauseous and car sick from having to read a map
5. You don’t have to try to pronounce complicated street name or cities
6. It’s rare that you’ll leave your directions behind because they’re usually on your phone or already positioned on the windshield in your car
7. You can turn up the volume and belt out songs as loud as you like
8. You can easily travel alone
9. You get an estimated arrival time that you can make your mission to beat
10. YOU HARDLY EVER GET LOST!
Wearables are becoming a bigger thing in society. More and more companies are now creating devices that you can wear. The only problem is most of them aren’t so fashionable and trendy.
Mashable has shed light on some new wearables that do make devices socially acceptable because people won’t even be able to tell you’re wearing them! They came up with a list of ‘seven incognito wearables that you’d never guess were gadgets.’ Some of my favorites/most impressive ones included on the list are the Dash headphones, the Ring, and the Glucose monitoring contact lenses.
I am actually quite mesmerized by Ring. As I watched the promotional video my eyes grew larger and larger with excitement and curiosity. It’s such a cool gadget, everyone needs to check it out! If I could turn off the upstairs lights without having to walk all the way back upstairs I would love that! So what if sometimes I want to be a little lazy…
I don’t own any wearables, but I would be interested in purchasing some if the price went down. I am excited by the fairly new trend of wearables but I think that if companies really want these types of products to go viral and spread that they need to A) make them more affordable for the general public and B) advertise them more heavily and in more places where people will see them, not only on tech websites and forums.
Since wearables are a new hot thing, I think that a lot of companies are heavily competing to come out with the next best gadget. However, this results in some very unnecessary new items, cough cough… Smarter Socks. Yes, I know socks disappear almost as fast as bobby pins do (girls, you know what I mean by this) but, I feel like it would be a little superfluous to spend $189 on something to help sort your socks and keep the pairs together. But hey, if that’s your thing and you’re really into keeping the same socks paired together then go for it!
While there definitely are some over-the-top and extravagant wearables I commend these companies for taking the risk. The key is they just need to find more ways to attract people and keep them interested. But how is the big question. According to The Guardian, ‘one-third of American consumers who have owned a wearable product stopped using it within six months. What’s more, while one in 10 American adults own some form of activity tracker, half of them no longer use it.’
I believe that wearables will become a big thing soon, it will just take some time!
Earlier this week I was having a lot of issues with my computer and I thought it was going to crash on me. A little bit of liquid spilled on it over the weekend and then for three days after that my computer was doing crazy things. I starting looking into new computers and began putting all my pictures onto flash drives as a precautionary measure. The thought of losing every picture, song and file on my computer made me realize how valuable my computer is it me. It’s kinda like my life compressed into a small silver rectangular box. I could bare the idea of having my 2,000 songs, thousands of pictures, and homework assignments disappear into thin air. I have nothing backed up so if they went missing off my computer I would never see them again.
I hate how all of our important information and files are in the hands of a very unpredictable and unreliable thing. I know I’ve mentioned this before, in a blog post about photographs, but this kind of scare just solidifies my weariness toward technology. I have so much trust in my computer when really I shouldn’t. I hear of people’s computers crashing or getting bad water damage, till the point of no repair, but I always think, “nah that’ll never happen to me.” The truth is, it can happen to anyone!
One of my best friends just had her computer randomly crash on her yesterday and she didn’t get as lucky as me. She lost every file she ever had on her computer. That is not a situation you want to be in so make sure you have an external hard drive for your computer so you can back everything up!
I love technology, but I’ve learned I have to be very careful with it. My computer is my life, actually, it’s kind of like my baby, and if anything ever happened to it I’d be really upset. That is why I went out and bought a hard drive so that I don’t ever lose the info on it.
I say, print photographs out, make CDs, and store your most valuable files in more than one place. Computers have changed the way we work because we have everything saved online now. It is great because it makes editing a paper soo much easier and it makes sharing photos as easy as clicking a button but it also opens up the possibility of losing all of that in a matter of seconds.
Two years ago if you had asked me if I monitored what I put on social media I would have told you no. I never thought twice about the pictures or tweets I put out there. If something funny, yet kind of inappropriate came to mind I would tweet it right away, in hopes of obtaining many favorites.
A lot has changed since I’ve been in college and since I’ve been in my mass communication class. I’m starting to realize that what you put on the internet needs to be heavily monitored and censored because you never really know who is viewing your stuff. It could be a future employer, a professor, a grandparent, or just a random stranger but regardless, so many people have access to the things you post.
Everything you put online is also a reflection of who you are. The amalgamation of your online posts essentially brand you and give you a name. This online profile is a representation of the kind of person you are and is a showcase of the work and things you have said and done. For this reason, you need to be selective in what you share with the public. I want future employers to look at my tweets, blog posts, tumblr posts, online art portfolio, etc. and say wow I like her stuff, not ooh I can’t believe she would post these things for all to see. I am starting to build up an online portfolio of all that I have done and I want to be proud to show it off, not scared that someone will find it.
In this day and age it really is important to have an online presence. It is one of the easiest ways to create a name for yourself and begin to gain a following. You never know when the HR director of a great company will stumble upon a blog post of yours that seriously sparks their interest in you. For this reason, you always have to think about your audience before you publish something online.
I know that sometimes this is a hard thing to do because, lets be honest, every so often you just get so heated or excited in the moment that you post or say something that you wouldn’t normally post. I can attest to this and am guilty of posting things in the past that probably would have been better off left as a thought in my head.
I think that any student who goes to UNC Chapel Hill will agree with me when I say that Connect Carolina might be the most blood boiling invention out there. Helplessly sitting there watching all the green circles turn to blue squares makes you want to throw your computer and/or drop out of school (for those of you who aren’t familiar with Connect Carolina, a blue box signifies that a class has been closed out and you can no longer enroll in it).
Well, my Fall 2014 registration date was three days later than the entire sophomore class, because I lost hours when I transferred, and I therefore got into precisely zero classes. In my rage of furry, I tweeted some harsh things about UNC and how I was unhappy with their registration policy, regarding transfer students. I knew it was probably wrong of me to do, but at the time I was so mad that I didn’t care. Directly after I posted the tweet I thought about my audience though and remembered that my JOMC 240 professor, John Robinson, follows me on Twitter. I was trying to make a point though so I didn’t want to delete the tweet and I thought eh he’ll probably never see it anyways! Sure enough, about five minutes later my professor responded back to the very tweet I was worried about posting. He was really cool about it though and told me that he would let me into any of his classes! Thankfully no mention of my inappropriateness.
His response is what really got me thinking about my audience. My account isn’t private so virtually anyone can look at what I post. I wouldn’t have wanted any other UNC staff seeing my rant so a few days later I decided to delete the tweet. From this experience I learned that you really do need to think twice before you post anything. Professor Robinson knows I’m not a crazy hot-headed person, but a random person reading my tweet could have gotten that impression. I’m actually quite the opposite and like to think of myself as a rather calm, easy-going person.
An individual’s online persona is something that has been growing in importance over time and is something that needs to be nurtured and protected. Even though posting that angry tweet feels like somewhat of a stress reliever, trust me, it’s better off to leave it alone. Save it as a draft, text your friends or mom about it, but don’t share it with the world if it’s not something you’re proud of calling your own!
Sometimes just one episode turns into just one more episode and then eh why not just one more. If this has happened to you and if you’ve ever wondered how much time you’ve spent watching these shows then you’ll like this new TV calculating tool.
This tool computes how much time you’ve spent sitting on the couch watching a show. A little scary right… All you have to do is type in the name of a show and select how many seasons you’ve seen and it will tell you how long you’ve spent watching it in days, hours, and minutes. And, if you can brave the number, it can add up the total time you’ve spent watching all TV shows.
I’m not a very big fan of TV. I have my few select shows that I watch, but even then, I find that I hardly have time to watch them. I’m not the kind of person to just pick up the remote and turn on the TV. Usually there has to be something specific on for me to do that.
This scared me because I tried out the new tool and the numbers I got were pretty bad, which made me think about how much higher probably everyone’s else is. Like many other girls, I watched every episode of Gossip Girl and 90210. I have spent 5 days and 1 hour watching Gossip Girl alone and combined I’ve spent 8 days, 14 hours and 30 minutes. That over a week of my life spent sitting on a couch watching a screen. Yikes!
Try it out! Is yours higher or lower than mine?
France just enacted a legislation that prohibits the sending of work related emails past 6 p.m. According to the Guardian, employers’ federations and unions just signed a “new, legally binding” labor agreement on Thursday that will require all staff to turn their phones off after 6 p.m. and ignore their bosses emails, without consequences! This means that after the 6 p.m. deadline, employees are no longer required to tend to their work-related emails and can instead focus their time on something else, such as family or friends. This law was created to ensure that the working people of France don’t feel the need or pressure to work after hours, like most people do.
At first, this might sound like crazy talk, but when you think about it, it’s actually a really great idea. The invention of the email has spawned the 24-7 work day. When people get off of work and head home they never truly get off of work because they are constantly required to check their email and keep up with whatever else is going on past hours. Before the expansion of technology, when you locked up your office and went home that was it, you were done with work for the day. People were able to leave work behind them and not have to worry about it again until the next morning. They could focus on spending quality time with their family and friends. There were probably a lot more dinner conversations because there were no urgent business emails to be sent.
This is not to say that I don’t love email, because I do, I just think that it has given way to a lot more work related stress. People are expected to be reachable at all times, which can cause a lot of anxiety in making sure you always check your phone or computer. This predicament reminds me of a scene in the Sex and the City Movie when Miranda’s husband gets mad at her for always being glued to her phone. She replies with a snarky comeback about how she has to be because she has a well respected job and her boss expects her to reply to his emails at the drop of a hat. So this is why I think that a 6 p.m. email curfew wouldn’t be such a bad thing, you’d be able to avoid situations like this.
My question to France is, how are you going to implement this new law? I wonder if people will really put away their phones and not send work email after 6, or will they continue to do so behind the government’s back? Will the people who abide by this law be seen as lazy and will the people who break this law be seen as dedicated workers?
France is not the first country to enact a ban of this nature. According to Mashable, Germany implemented a similar deal whereby the country’s employment ministry banned employers from contacting employees by phone or email after work hours, except under emergencies. So I guess it does work!
France just went from being one of the nicest places to live and dine, to one of the best places to work!